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11 Years, a Hot Day, and a Shoutout to Referees

Marko Simonen of Kayfabe Diary working as a professional wrestling referee in 2023, with Estonian pro wrestler Artur Arder. Marko Simonen steps back into the spotlight of the squared circle in "11 Years, a Hot Day, and a Shoutout to Referees," trading his camera for the iconic zebra stripes. This narrative finds him at a unique juncture, returning to the role of a referee after a decade-long hiatus. His background in the creative arts provides a sharp contrast to this physical endeavor; while he is often the one designing posters or capturing matches from the floor, this transition requires him to become a functional pillar of the match itself. As a pro wrestling veteran, he understands that the referee is the "third person" in the ring, responsible for the pacing and safety that allows the drama to unfold. The setting is a beautiful summer evening in Haapsalu, Estonia, where an outdoor show necessitated his return to active duty. Recognizing that his cardiovascular endurance might not be at its peak after years focusing on the visual and technical aspects of the business, Marko details his pragmatic preparation. He describes hitting the elliptical trainer in the days leading up to the event, a move driven by a desire to avoid "gassing out" in front of the live crowd. This commitment to the craft, even in a temporary role, reflects the discipline he applies to his design and photography work—a belief that the excellence of the final product depends on invisible preparation. The physicality of the evening proves to be a visceral reminder of the referee’s demanding role. Despite refereeing only four matches, Marko explains that his active style left him completely drenched. He discusses the specific mechanics of the "diving count," a movement that resulted in a lingering left shoulder injury lasting over a year. This injury serves as a physical record of the night, a testament to the fact that the drama of the ring carries real-world consequences. He finds a certain irony in the fact that he is right-handed, as it was his non-dominant side that bore the brunt of the evening’s labor. Ultimately, the article is a tribute to the overlooked importance of the referee. Marko uses his platform to advocate for the respect this position deserves, arguing that the success of a wrestling match depends on the performers listening to the official in the ring. By merging his artistic sensibilities with his deep knowledge of wrestling tradition, he highlights the referee as a vital collaborator in the storytelling process. For Marko, the return to the ring was more than a temporary fix; it was a reconnection with the physical roots of an industry he usually views through a lens or a computer screen.

This one was an interesting show. In the summer of 2023, I had the opportunity to referee again, after an 11-year hiatus. A hot, yet absolutely beautiful summer evening outdoors, in Haapsalu, Estonia. It was the summer vacation season, and all our refs were somewhere else. So, I was back on zebra duty.

I knew at the time that my cardio sucked. So, on two different days during the week, I made my way to the downstairs gym in my building and hit the elliptical trainer. I wanted to avoid the possible risk of gassing out, so some cardio work before the show seemed like a good idea.

And, sure enough, I had honestly forgotten how physically active refereeing can be. It was only four matches, but I was absolutely drenched. I tend to be an ‘active’ type of ref, so it felt pretty exhausting.

I’m right-handed, and I use my right hand to make the count, but surprisingly enough, it was my left shoulder that disagreed with my refereeing. It was the ‘diving down for the count’ that caused some type of discomfort in the shoulder blade. It kept bothering me for about a year and a half, then slowly settled.

A big shoutout to all the refs out there. Sometimes wrestlers tend to forget the referee’s role in the game, which is a shame. It’s the person in the striped shirt you gotta listen to, and that’s no joke. So, work together and you’ll all up your game.

A big thanks to Jarmo Katila for photographing the show that day! On the card that day were Ricky Sky, TT Suosalo, Miika Forsström, Eemi Helén, Lexa Valo, Mel Fire, StarBuck, Bjorn Sem, Mikk Vainula, Artur Arder, Stark Adder, and Johnny McMetal.

Marko Simonen of Kayfabe Diary working as a professional wrestling referee in 2023, with Germany's Lexa Valo.
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